In this blockbuster trade scenario with the Nets, Nuggets, Jazz, and Bobcats, who is the bad guy holding everything up?

I have sat this morning and read over all of the different pages of info.  I have come to one conclusion.  Everything is top secret until a deal is or is not reached.  I've seen that the entire deal is waiting on Carmelo to agree to an extension.  I have read that the Denver FO are dragging their feet because they want more.  I've heard that we are dragging our feet because we want more for including DJ.  I've heard Denver is dragging their feet because they want DJ and we don't want to include him at all.  I've heard tha Kwame's ankle sprain is a direct result of no decision being made...

OK, that last one is made up, but all the same...COME ON!

Every team is set except for Denver.  Denver blames Melo, Melo blames Denver.

Oh well.  I'm not getting worked up over this one.  I'll "Wait for it" (TM), but I'm not going to focus too hard over this one.

It is really sad that the NBA is now in a position where the players can truly decide their fate completely...

I want to go to team X to play with my boy...if I can't...I want to go to team Q because they look like they need me and we'll win a title.  I'll only sign R if the other team promises to have me only Red jellybeans and Orange Reece's Pieces in a stainless steel bowl before every game.  I also must have 2 quarts of breast milk to drink before and after each game.  Make it happen, or I will stay where I am and sulk to mid-season where you will hate me and I'll be easily dumped to another team.